A Christian approach to heal broken relationships

I just gave a passing thought to the ultimate reason for this stanchless problem in human relations. It may be simply viewed as a consequence of wrong communication. We may have different psychological language in interpreting the opposite's mind, so that we could never understand genuine intentions of the other but always listened to the other's speaking through a perverted lens. According to this theory, the best solution in a broken relationship would be quite straightforward; it is just to speak and listen in the opposite's language. However, we are very adamant to use our own emotional language. We misunderstood it is servile and self-deprecating to abandon my language.

I thought the authentic humility would be to abandon my own language but to use their languages to communicate with others. This is exactly the way of what Jesus Christ did as He came us with the human body even if He was the Son of God. So, what is the solution? It is to become humble like Jesus as He sacrificed himself for saving us.